Nine Qualities of a Gentleman

-When observing, see clearly

-When listening, hear distinctly

-In expression be open to knowledge and understanding

-In attitude to be deferential

-In speech to be loyal

-In duty to be respectful

-When in doubt to be questioning

-When angered to be deliberate on the consequences of anger

-When having gained the advantage, to consider if it is appropriate and fair

-Confucius